Monday, October 27, 2014

Sister Abbey Hafen // Week Seventy-One // "A Penny Is Enough!"

Hello family!!!
This week was one of the best weeks of my entire mission. We saw so many miracles and truly witnessed being the Lord’s instruments. I cannot even explain it, and this morning when I went to write all about it my journal,  I couldn’t. haha it was so hard to express, but I did my best in writing it down :D
Sister cabada and i had a really cool companionship study this week, we set some good goals and really felt the spirit. Since we have done that, we have literally seen miracles in the area.
Here are a few:
-the “there’s really no hope for her” LA came to church for the first time in years, Nanay Domingo, and the branch fellowshipped like there was no tomorrow!!!!!
- Our investigator’s (Lirio)  husband joined the lesson last night. and we somehow (haha, somehow- it was obviously the spirit) were guided exactly in what to say- we committed them to get married so that nanay can be baptized.
-Our recent convert who has been struggling has now been to church 2 weeks in a row, and is partners at work with our really strong RC.
-We had an awesome lesson to our active fellowshipper’s boyfriend, who is now starting to become progressing. :)
-We were so guided as well in another lesson with our referral investigator (Kris) who is really just struggling in receiving her answer about the book of Mormon. We were so guided in our discussion and her faith grew so much.  
-we met a couple who are members of Iglesia ni Cristo (the church that they say an apostasized LDS member started back in 1914) and they let us right in their home. They had 1,000,000,000 bajillion questions but we were calm and answered the best we could while still bearing our testimony. If that would have happened at the beginning of my mission, I think I would have cried right there on their front porch haha. He was subtly mocking me for the fact that I know joseph smith is a true prophet because I prayed about it. But when he asked me over and over, mockingly confirming that that really is how I know, I just smiled and look right in his eyes. The spirit was so different in that encounter, but I honestly have never felt so sure about anything in my life.
-Our family investigators (LUZANO family) are progressing so much and are really becoming prepared for 29 November to be baptized!
Here is the last of miracles from the week: the couple missionaries had visitors this week (their son an RM and his wife who is muslim, and elder morgan’s brother Frank who is an atheist.)
at church yesterday, of course, they don’t speak tagalog, so they asked me to teach gospel principles to this crew. Hahaha. At this point I have no idea what Brother Frank’s beliefs are, so I just pray my little bum off that I’ll know how to share. As I’m praying, the story of alma came to mind when he went to visit the people of Gideon (alma 7) and he also had no idea what to share. We read some verses there, and after alma explains the doctrine of Christ, (gaining faith, repenting and being baptized to receive a remission of sins). After we read this verse I asked Frank if that seems impossible that that could happen. He didn’t answer for a moment, so I followed up and said “be honest, does that even make any sense?”  and he looked at my smiling face and said “honestly that makes NO SENSE at ALL.” We all laughed so dang hard. I wish I could explain the rest of the lesson... But as it went on he looked at me and said “if in the end, there really is a god, and I was wrong, then everything your saying about him being loving will also apply to me. If not, everything you’re saying doesn’t line up.” I listened to what he said and really saw his side. I looked at him and said “Yes. You are right. But you know what Frank, you have something that you don’t know you have.” I paused, then said “that’s what we call faith. In the back of your head, you’ve got this little part of you that believes that maybe there really is someone, a god, who loves you and is real.” He looked at me, and his face just lit up. He said “maybe you’re right. I’ve never thought of that. I think you’re right sister hafen” we then talked about alma 32, in verses 27 and 28. I helped him see that faith starts small, like a penny, and can turn into 1 million dollars. But you can’t be asking for that million dollars if you haven’t done a thing with your penny- but once we use that penny or once we "give room for that seed" in our hearts, God will take that penny and make it into something we could have never done ourselves. He told us right there that he’s going to give the “missionary team a try” but he wants me to be his teacher haha. I committed him to hold on tight to his penny of faith, and to do something with it- he committed. A penny really is enough.
It was a week that I can’t even believe happened, and me and my companion owe it all to the spirit and to our loving heavenly father. I love Him and know He lives and loves me and every single HUMAN BEING THAT EVER LIVED! I am grateful for that simple truth that I do know. I love Him and His work, it’s the best thing I’ve ever had a chance to be a part of.
What a great week. Love you all.
Sister Hafen







Monday, October 20, 2014

Sister Abbey Hafen // Week Seventy // "Bonifacio!"

Another week!!! And this week was seriously soo good. What a success. I love it. We had a week full of awesome exchanges, delicious food, great appointments, spirutual experiences, and a wonderful, quiet, and spiritual sacrament meeting.

Starting with last monday... we had a FHE with our Branch president, the Daggao family. They are probably the only family who consistently, every single monday, holds a family home evening here in the Burgos District. They even include family planning and "resolving of family issues". It was so cool. This family has been such an incredible example to me of what kind of leader, wife, and mom I need to be when that part of my life comes. Our president was baptized at 18, served a mission at 19, and when he got off his mission married a year later, and 3 years after that was made branch president. They have 2 kids, and are the best family ever. They shared their experiences with us from their life as a married couple and how humble these 2 people are. They are servants of our Lord truly looking to improve every single day. It was a very uplifiting evening, and we had such a good time. 

We have this investigator, who the first time we saw him was him dead passed out drunk, by his machines for his work, in the front of his house. BONIFACIO GABUAT. We saw him many many times after that, because his niece and her family were our investigators before. Anyway. To make a long story short, one night in the pouring rain he helped us find transportation (the one night he wasn't drunk haha) and he said we were welcome to come back anytime. We have been going back in the mornings, just reading the book of mormon with him and sharing the first 2 principles in lesson one, about our loving heavenly father and what the gospel can do for our families. 

Every lesson, at least once, tears fill his eyes. He doesnt weep loudly and inappropriatly or say anything as he's crying, but every time we share, something will come to his mind that he wishes he change or get rid of. We have taught him about forgiveness and the love His father in heaven has for him. It has really been an eye opener for me, meeting and teaching this man. and although the first lesson we had with him he said "Just so you know, i'll never come attend your church and i'll never be baptized" , we see hope in this man. And ya know what, sometimes i have no idea why we keep going back, but we do. And every time we do, He and us leave feeling happy and full of hope. And if the only reason we're being guided to visit him, is to just begin his process of change and to gain hope in our Savior... we'll keep going to this small, skinny man named Bonifacio, who smokes and laughs his croaky laugh during every lesson that we teach :)

It was a great week and I'm excited for this week as well. The weeks are cruising by like they never had, and I just feel happy. I don't know how to explain it, except that its just a good, full, sense of happiness. I love the sisters serving in this zone, I love my housemates, I love my companion so much, the people we teach are so awesome, and the progress and miracles we see everyday are just beautiful.

I love you family, and I know you're all counting the days until I come home. Almost every email of yours this week started out with how many days or weeks until i come home haha. I love you all and am so excited to just hug each one of you and tell you I LOVE YOU right to your face!!!!!!!

-abbey
no knife... no worries! can lid :) 
jojomar bilog, jolvin cabaltica, me, ronel maynite, sister cabs, and aljonel cantor MISSION PREP CLASS... eating before we start...
 me and nanay coming back from an appointment to a less active, coooollld weather,,,,, hello!!!!!!
.... and i wore a sweater :)
ahaha, it got "cold" and my companion layerd up!!!!!
me and my bff sister howlett, i honestly cannot explain how much i love her.
companionship for the day, howlett and cabada
me and my bff, sister villaneva. man, running 6 months as housemates :) best thing ever
sister flores.... oh my gosh the most humble person i know. LOVE HER.
after splits, heading home :)
sister corsilles
splits!! sleep over :D :D :D
the monteclaro family, nikole, sister manukailea, melanie, and their neighbors
the monteclaro family, nikole, sister manukailea, melanie, and their neighbors
this sweet jeepney, it was high class!
Roxas Zone MEeting!